More Like Jesus, Less Like Me

Dealing with difficult people isn't easy. Their words and actions can test our patience and push all the wrong buttons. Difficult people put us to the test in many ways. Maybe what you want to do is yell and scream, but as followers of Jesus, we’recalled to respond differently. In James 1:19, the Bible reminds us, "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.” This verse encourages us to exercise patience when dealing with difficult people by being slow to anger and quick to listen. Is that an easy thing? No. Can we trust Jesus to give us the strength to act, speak and respond in a Godly way? Absolutely!  

 

Patience with difficult people can be tough, but it's important to remember that we all have our flaws and shortcomings. Just as God extends His patience and forgiveness towards us, we ought to do the same for others. In Ephesians 4:32, we're reminded, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Extending grace and forgiveness towards others will grow our own patience and foster understanding in our relationships. 

 

Practicing patience with difficult people not only reflects Christ's love, but also has the power to transform relationships. Romans 12:18 encourages us, "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” When we choose to respond with patience and understanding, we’re doing what we can tocreate an environment of peace and harmony. Our patience can be a testimony to others, showing them the love and grace of God in action. 

 

Does patience with difficult people come naturally? Not usually - but it’s an essential quality for believers in Jesus. By relying on God's strength and guidance, we can develop patience in our interactions & relationships. Let’s remember the words of Galatians 5:22-23, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” Jesus, let the fruits of YOUR Spirit grow in us. Amen!
 

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